Abigail Shrier, author of โIrreversible Damage: The Transgender Craze Seducing Our Daughters,โย was basically shut down at Princeton from making a great speech about freedom, but Bari Weiss wants everyone to hear this speech.
It has a great message and everyone should hear it. She’s trying to protect our children. You can read some of it here or go to the end and listen to her excellent reading.
She addresses freedom and the mockery of women’s rights.
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As the target of hate, what’s it like? “It’s freeing.”
“Why am I unwilling to back down?ย Why wouldnโt I prostrate myself before the petulant mobs who insist that my standard journalistic investigation into a medical mysteryโspecifically, why so many teen girls were suddenly identifying as transgender and clamoring to alter their bodiesโmakes me a hater? Why on earth would I have chosen to write this book in the first place and am I glad that I wrote it?
“If youโre here, you no doubt are familiar with at least some of the unpleasantness you encounter whenever you deviate from the approved script. So, again, whatโs it like to be the target of so much hate?ย Itโsย freeing.ย Thatโs what Iโd like to talk about tonight.
“As an undergraduate studying philosophy, I spent an inordinate amount of time wondering whether my will was free. This is the metaphysical question of whether anyone can be said to have acted โfreely.โ And most of the philosophers seemed to agree that our will wasnโt all that free. The hard determinists painted a world in which every human action was ultimately explicable by the wave function of elementary particles, leading neurons to fireโsetting off of axonal conduction well beyond our control and none of which we directed.
“Even if you werenโt a hard determinist, you struggled with the obvious problem that human decisionsโand the reasons behind themโare structured by oneโs upbringing, experience or even inborn personality traits, all of which shape our motivations. Compatibilists claimed that, at most, one could hope to live according to oneโs own motives and preferences. That is, motives and preferences that were largely determined by things like personality.
โThe Actions of man are never free,โ the 18th-century determinist Baron Holbach once wrote. โThey are always the necessary consequence of his temperament, of the received ideas, and of the notions, either true or false, which he has formed to himself of happiness, of his opinions, strengthened by example, by education, and by daily experience.โ
“I remember reading those lines as an undergraduate, tugged by the worry that Holbach was right: maybe our motivations were determined by our personalities and upbringing and received ideas. Today, I read them and think:ย if only.
“In 2021, it seems a luxury to worry that a will determined and shaped entirely by received ideas and our own personality-driven desires might not be entirely free. Today, before any of us decides what it is we want, we open our phones and participate in our own manipulation at the hands of those who actively want us to think, and see, and vote differently than our own wills would have us do. If we were not entirely free before, in other wordsโwe are far less so now.
“Every dating app pushes us toward the same few attractive mate choices; Spotify presses us to like the same music; Amazon pushes us to purchase specific books and away from others. If youโre under the impression that the books Amazon recommends to you are based solely on a content-neutral algorithm, I can disabuse you of that fiction right now. I once asked one of my sources at Amazon, who was concerned about the ways the search results were being manipulated, whether heโd ever seen a book deliberately boosted. Yes, he said.ย Becomingby Michelle Obama. When that book came out, he told me, virtually every search you did led to the recommendation to buy the former First Ladyโs book.
“And the opposite is also true. There are books that areย neverย recommended by the Amazon algorithm, irrespective of how well theyโve sold or how likely a specific shopper is to buy them. Or, at least, thereโs one such book. Iโll let you try and guess what it is.
But the larger point is, yourย willย is being toyed with, subverted, manipulated. And in a fairly insidious manner. None of you will be shocked to hear that Google promotes certain search results in order to lead us to a certain perspective. But did you know that, for contested entries, Wikipedia assigns editors, some of whom are ideologically committed activists, many of whom have very particular views they want you to walk away with?
“If you form views based on those Wikipedia articles or reports by corrupt fact-checkers, if you act based on them, are you exercising freedom of will? Given that youโve been spun and prodded along to a pre-determined conclusion by hidden persuaders, perhaps you arenโt. Perhaps youโre left in the same sorry state as the Moor of Venice: toyed with, subverted, manipulated. Acting out someone elseโs plan, pointed in the direction that he wants you to walk.
“Weโve spent a lot of time in the past few years debating whether this kind of manipulation is at the root of our political divisions, but I donโt think weโve paidย enoughย attention to an even more basic question: how it has interfered with freedom of conscience and ultimately free will.
“When polled, nearly two out of three Americans (62%) say they are afraid to express an unpopular opinion. That doesnโt sound like a free people in a free country. We are, each day, force-fed falsehoods we are all expected to take seriously, on pain of forfeiting esteem and professional opportunity:
- โSome men have periods and get pregnant.โ
- โHard work and objectivity are hallmarks of whiteness.โ
- โOnly a child knows her own true gender.โ
- โTranswomen donโt have an unfair advantage when playing girlsโ sports.โ
“On that final example of a lie, the one about transwomen in girlsโ sports, I want you to think for a moment about a young woman here at Princeton. Sheโs a magnificent athlete named Ellie Marquardt, an all-American swimmer who set an Ivy League record in the 500-yard freestyle event as a freshman. Just before Thanksgiving, Ellie was defeated in the 500-free, the event she held the record in, by almostย 14 secondsย by a 22 year old biological male at Penn who was competing on the menโs team as recently as November of 2019. That male athlete now holdsย multiple U.S. records in womenโs swimming, erasing the hard work of so many of our best female athletes, and making a mockery of the rights women fought for generations to achieve.
“Ellie Marquart swam her heart out for Princeton. When will Princeton fight for her? Where are the student protests to sayโenough is enough. When a biological male who has enjoyed the full benefits of male pubertyโlarger cardiovascular system, 40% more upper body muscle mass, more fast-twitch muscle fiber, more oxygenated bloodโdecides after three seasons on the menโs team to compete as a woman and smashes the records of the top female swimmers in this country, that is not valor. Thatโs vandalism.
“Where is the outrage? Imagine, for a second, what it must be like to be a female swimmer at Princeton, knowing you must pretend that this is fairโthat the NCAA competition is anything other than a joke. Imagine being told to bite your tongue as men lecture you that you just need toย swim harder.ย โBe grateful for your silver medals, ladies, and maybe work harder next time,โ is the message. Imagine what that level of repression does to warp the soul.
“Now, imagine, instead, the womenโs swimmers had all walked out. Imagine they had stood together and said: We will meet any competitor head on. But we will not grant this travesty the honor of our participation. We did not spend our childhoods setting our alarm clocks forย 4 a.m.ย every morning, training for hours before and after school, to lend our good names to this fixed fight.
“I know why students keep their heads down. They are hoping for that Goldman orย New York Timesย internship, which they donโt want to put in jeopardy. Well, any institution that takes our brightest, most capable young peopleโPrinceton graduates!โand tells you can only work here if you think like we tell you to and keep your mouth shut, that isnโt really Goldman Sachs and it isnโt the paper of record. Itโs the husk of a once-great institution, and itโs not worth grasping for. Talk to alums at these institutions: they sound like those living under Communist regimes. Thatโs the America that awaits you if you will not speak up.
“You who are studying at one of the greatest academic institutions in the country only to be told that after graduation, you must think as we tell you and recite from this scriptโwhy were you born? Whatโs the point of being alive? Computers are vastly better at number crunching. Theyโll soon be better at all kinds of more complex tasks. What they cannot do is stand on principle. What a computer cannot do is refuse to lend credibility to a rigged competitionโto refuse to strengthen its coercionโmaking it that much harder for the next female athlete to speak up. What the computer cannot know is the glorious exertion of the human will when it refuses to truckle in the face of lies and instead publicly speaks the truth.
“I didnโt writeย Irreversible Damageย to be provocative.ย In a freer world, nothing in my book would have created controversy. I wrote the book because I knew it was truthful and I believed recording what I foundโthat there was a social contagion leading many teenage girls to irreversible damageโwas the right thing to do. I also believe if I hadnโt written it, thousands more girls would be caught up in an identity movement that was not organic to them but would nonetheless lead them to profound self-harm. But I didnโt write it specifically to stop them. I wrote it simply because it was true.
“When I testified in front of the Senate Judiciary Committee back in March, I started by stating that I am proud to live in an America where gay and transgender Americans live with less stigma and fear than at any point in American history. That is the glory of freedom as wellโthe chance for adults to live authentic lives and guide their own destinies. And allowing mature adults to make those sorts of choices for themselves is absolutely a requirement of a free society. Yes, you can reject the false, dogmatic insistences of Gender Ideology and still wish to see transgender Americans prosper and flourish and fulfill their dreams in America. I do.
“I wrote the book because the story of one mom and her teen daughter compelled me, and so did that of the dozens of other parents who then spoke to meโmothers and fathers who sobbed as they described how their daughters had become caught up in a craze that seemed completely inauthentic to the child, but which they were powerless to arrest.
“I wrote the bookย notย because I believed the fancy institutions Iโd attended would celebrate me, or even acknowledge me, after I had done so. I wrote it because I knew that the point of all the educational opportunities I received that my equally qualified grandmothers never had, the purpose of all the sacrifices my parents had made for my educationโfor all the time my teachers and professors had taken with meโcouldnโt be to plod through life on a forced march. The point of all the hours my parents and teachers and mentors had devoted to me, was surely not to become the worldโs best-oiled automaton. The point of all of that privilegeโand yes, I think that was a kind of privilegeโwas to be able to write and think as others lacked the will to do.
“Spotify employees tried to hold that company hostage because they carried my podcast episode with Joe Rogan. Amazon employees threatened to quit if they continued to carry my book. GoFundMe shut down a grassroots fundraiser by parents who reached into their own pockets, to advertise my book. And the ACLU threw its entire, century-old mission in the garbage, all because of one book with which it disagreed. Joining these petulant mobs is not a show of strength, and it is not freedom. Itโs closer to servitude.
“True, if you dare exercise your will, you may sit for decades on the Supreme Court, as the eldest member, the only African American, perform your duties admirably and with integrity, and perhaps not a single elementary school in America will bear your name. Does anyone doubt this is a discredit to his detractorsโnot to Justice Thomas?
“I cannot claim to know if we are truly free in the metaphysical sense. But if the universe is anything less than thoroughly determined down to the last sub-atomic particle, then we must also agree that freedom admits of degrees. And if that is true, then we are far less free today in this decadeโthat you, as undergrads, have lost a significant measure of freedom that your parents once had.ย Take it back.ย Take it back. Itโs yours to demand.ย Take back the right to speak your mindโthoughtfully, courteously, with a goal in mind beyond giving offense. The list of unmentionable truths expands so rapidly, without reason other than the attempt to suffocate a free people so that they forget the exhilaration of a lungful of air.
“If you are someone who believes you have pronouns or would like to supply them, by all means, that is your prerogative. Whenever anyone asks me to use their preferred pronouns, and I can do so without confusing my audience or muddying an argument, I do so and I think this is an important courtesy.ย Butโwhen asked, I will not state my pronouns and if you donโt believe in Gender Ideology, you shouldnโt either. When you state your pronouns, you participate in the catechism of Gender Ideologyโthe belief that there are ineffable genders, unknowable to all but the subject. That no one can possibly know I am a woman unless Iโve supplied these. I do not believe this. I regard this as nonsense. When asked for my pronouns, I say: โI am a woman.โย Take back your freedom. Reclaim it now.
“Psychiatrists and pediatricians tell me they are afraid to resist an adolescentโs demand that she be given puberty blockers because theyโre afraidโif they point out the risks or the hastiness of the decisionโthey will lose their licenses. Parents tell me they are afraid to push back on the activist teachers and social workers at their kidsโ school for fear of being called some flavor of phobe. Whatever freedom is, it isnโt that. And all of the wonderful education you have earned here will have been wasted if you find yourself one day observing some lie predominating in your own field and the best you can do is sit on the phone with me anonymously lamenting the state of things. You will soon be graduates of Princeton. Show some self-respect andย reclaim your freedom.
“It isnโt in those moments when you do just whatโs expected that your will is tested. It isnโt in those moments when you recite the script that you exceed what any computer can achieve. Those moments when you managed to make yourself a faceless member of a pre-approved chorus will slide away as though you were never part of them.
“You will, each of you, have the chance to matter. You will find yourselves at hospitals or in banks or in courtrooms and at newspapers where you will see things happen that you know to be wrongโwhere you find that the standard line is actually a lie. You may have found yourself there already. If youโre fortunate enough, you may even find yourself one day with children of your own, knowing you are their best defense in this world. And youโll feel the nub of your will, pressing you toย doย somethingโsayย something. And when that happens, donโt sit there like a sock puppet.
“Iโm 43, which I realize makes me very old to many of you. But not so long from now, youโll wake up and be 43 yourselves. And when I look back on my life thus far, it occurs to me that the decisions of which I am most proudโthe ones that strike like an unexpected kissโare not the times when I obeyed the algorithm. Theyโre the times when I defied it and felt, for a moment, the magic and power of being alive. When I felt, even for an instant, the exquisite joy of not being anyoneโs subject. When I had the unmistakable sense that Iโve existed for a purpose, that I stood the chance of leaving the world better than I found it. You donโt get any of that through lock-step career achievement and you certainly donโt get that by being the Leftโs star pupil.
“You feel thatย frissonย when you choose a person to commit yourself to knowing full well that any marriage may fail; when you bring children into a world where there are no guarantees of their safety or success. When you summon the courage to fashion a life, something that will remain after you are gone. When you speak the truth publiclyโwith care and lucidity. And when you say to the world: you cannot buy me with flattery. Purchase my colleagues or classmates at bulk rate. I am not for sale
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